I have always been a daydreamer, and among my many aspirations, one stood out: obtaining my master’s degree. However, after raising three children and embarking on a new career, this dream seemed out of reach.

Daydreams can be a way to escape reality, called dereistic thinking. This is when thoughts are motivated by emotional needs, disregarding objective reality. However, daydreams can also be logical and realistic and can reveal a path an individual wants for themselves.

At the age of 35, I finally made the decision to pursue a Master’s in Applied Neuroscience. My fascination with the brain and the potential to harness mental energy for a more fulfilling life was the driving force behind this choice.

With no background in science or medicine, week one of my first module was a rollercoaster of emotions. Panic attacks, tears, and moments of self-doubt overwhelmed me. I was convinced that failure was imminent or, at best, I would barely scrape through. However, through weeks of dedication, watching lectures, reviewing transcripts, engaging with core readings, and supplementing my learning with online resources like YouTube videos and podcasts, I not only passed but was awarded a distinction!

My success was not solely the result of hard work but a positive mindset. I was fueled by the belief in my own capabilities. It took time to silence the inner critic and cultivate self-confidence, but the journey was worth it. Overcoming obstacles and persevering through moments of doubt led to an overwhelming sense of accomplishment.

We all grapple with limiting beliefs, many of which originate from our past experiences or childhood. However, it’s crucial to recognize that our thoughts do not define us, and clinging to these limitations only fuels the “What if?” narrative.

If you find yourself hesitating to pursue your dreams due to that voice of doubt, let me assure you: you are capable. There will never be a perfect time to start; the time is now.